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On good underwears and confidence...

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Feeling: A slight headache, probably hunger Time: 10:34am This is something that's been on my mind, for about three months ish, it's not something I'd normally share with everyone, maybe cos ... Oh well,  but then, I saw something sometime ago; a meme perhaps, that talked about a lady being low-key mad at her man because it's on the days she decides to wear not so cute underwear that he decides to do stuff with her. Blue's not my favorite color. It made me laugh. I low-key wish this was an ad, but it's not lol. I think good underwear helps with confidence. I dunno if men feel the same way, I guess they should.  I'm not even talking about designer stuff, just really really good underwear that fulfils it's purpose and helps you look good. Many ladies don't care much for what's underneath their outfits, after all , no one can see.  Lol it reminds me of one thing one of my brothers told me, he said, "people actually dress up for ...

On standing up for ourselves

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Feeling: *No words Time: 2:56 p.m I used to be a huge fan of tennis, but I lost interest in sports generally. However, watching the US Open finals reignited my love for tennis. Let's see how long it lasts. This post isn't really about the commotion that went on in the US Open. Not about women's rights or anything.  Just a simple thing I brought out of the whole thing; Stand up for yourself . Be bold. Be confident. People would walk over you, cheat you, it's left for you to fight for yourself to be heard. I had goosebumps watching Serena talk to the umpire. It's why I admire freedom fighters, they won't be silenced. Here's to learning how to stand up for ourselves, when people would otherwise have us shut up. Much love,  Fifi.  P.S. I have decided to write at least twice in a week, no particular days for now.