Fifi's diary

Heyer people, how you been?? Me been good (tehehe). To be honest, I really don't feel like writing, not because i don't know what to write, but because i feel like reading. Back to business. I was thinking about telling you guys something I learnt last week Sunday, or is it this week (okay, this week.I don't just like believing Sunday is the beginning of a new week. Wonder who created the idea KMT), anyways, I'll share with you what I learnt yesterday. So yesterday evening after work (not immediately after, let's say an hour after i got home and found the door to my room locked, thanks to my mom),my mom begged me to follow her out for a stroll (she wanted to buy something across the street), I'm like "mommy now do I have to go? I'm busyyy" (I was truly busy writing a post for my other blog, https://theuniquewomanblog.wordpress.com ) and then she's like,"you know I'll soon go back and then you'll be left alone here" okay , t...

Hello humans, welcome back to fifi's diary, where I leave you bored (or not) lol. So, today, I'll be doing something quite different. I get so many feed backs, and so many guys are so very jealous that I'm almost always addressing ladies. Well, here's why. I am a lady, and I kinna know how we think, but guys, you guys are different from us, and I don't think I understand your thought processes. Moving on, I'll be talking about a few life hacks for guys. Things that girls want more of. Yeah, it's kinda like a cheat that will help you in life. Hack 1 Do not sag!!! It's awfullll, and a turn off for most girls that i know. Like why do you think it's cool? Never approach any woman of worth while sagging. Hack 2 Please and Please, never lead any woman on. State your intentions. DO NOT confuse her, if you want to be just friends, then be, if you want to be more than friends, then make her know, don't play with her emotions. Hack 3 T...

Heyerr guyss!!! I finally have some time to myself, lemme quickly write . How are y'all doing this week? Well, mine was amazing, and I'll tell you guys about it some other time. Today, I'll be talking about something very very important. Was about to say "guess what",but you'll probably not get it, so let me just get on with it. LEADERSHIP. What does leadership mean to you? (This is beginning to sound serious bleh) Well, it takes a lot to be a leader,takes so much training. You cannot just wake up one morning and say you want to be a leader, or maybe you can, it'll just take a process to get you there. Now, so many people believe that once they have charisma, then they are leaders automatically(puhlease), so they take up leadership positions, and somehow, they end up failing woefully. That's simply because it's not all about charisma, it's not all about knowing how to command the attention of people, and it certainly not because you ...

Hey fam!! How've you been all week? Feels like a long time since I've written here. Anyways, moving on to what I'll talk about today. This post has been drafted out for like over two months, but at the time I was drafting it, I was in no position to talk to anybody about it, but today, today today, I will write about it, because I'm consciously learning to be happy no matter what. Dang!!! Guys, it's hard, but the results are worth it. So, yeah, you probably have a hint on what I'll be talking about.  BE HAPPY. Many times, you won't find yourself in a beautiful situation, many times, your emotions will try to bring you down, human beings will make you mad, annoyed, sad, disappointed and all kind of things, but you know what? It's really up to you to make yourself happy. There's some kind of  JOY  that comes from being happy, less burdens (a very amazing feeling). The thing is if you want to keep looking at all these things, you won't be a happy...