Fifi's diary

Hi guyss, I feel sooo sleepy and lazy to write, but I have toooo, I hope y'all are good though and had a fab week? Hope you enjoyed black Friday? (of course, see your face😁). So going ahead to today's topic. It's a topic most of us battle with, okay, lemme say many not most.  It's peer pressure. It'll be long o😘. Somehow, it affects people from different age groups. When I was a kid, there was one particular kind of shoe all the big rich girls had, how I wanted this shoe so badly, not for any reason other than the fact that it was the in thing, but I couldn't even tell my mom cos I knew she couldn't afford it, so I just had to let the pressure get off my chest. I'm sure that of we were rich ehn, I would have disturbed my mom's life. That's that. As a teenager, all your girlfriends are talking about the boyfriends they have, and they constantly talk about their make out sessions, then you think silently "Oh God! I ...

Hello everyone, good day, so sorry I couldn't post anything yesterday. Lol it's so very weird posting on a Sunday. So how was church today? And if you didn't go, I hope you rested well, and still had time for God. Before I start, let me say that all these things I write and talk about also apply to me. I'm not one little miss perfect that gets everything right. I'm just a young girl who loves God a whole lot and decides to share with youths the things she's learning. Yup yup, so I'll just go straight into what I'll talk about today, which is about embracing our uniqueness. Yaayy!! I guess we all know the meaning of uniqueness right? Mhm. There was a day I was thinking, and I just thought, (like it just dropped!!) there's only one MARQUIS FIFEOLUWAHAN LOIS OLUWASEYITAN on this planet!!!! I couldn't believe it. It's not only about the names. Nobody on this planet has my finger prints, I even think we all have different genes. Does anyone ev...

Hi guys,  how have we all been? Yeah, so, I really don't have much to say. I'm sooo sorry.  And I'm also sorry this is coming in really late. 😘 Yeah, so today, I'll say something short on the way we use Social media. Kilodeeee?? !!!!  Mind you, I'm talking to myself as well.  But damn! The rate at which we (youths majorly) use social media is quite alarming. Almost everyone is always on their phones (looking at other people that'll never affect their lives in any way). I'll use myself as an illustration, so it won't be as though I'm pointing fingers. The amount of time I spend on Instagram (because it's the only cool app I know how to use) is just UNHEALTHY. I think I have an excuse though, I'm always at home and there's always no one to talk to😖, so in a bid to keep me a little sane, I just check out funny videos (that make me laugh insanely), pictures of celebs and other people who (btw,I stalk a lot, so be wa...

Yeah, you've probably heard that Yoruba phrase countless times. My dad's a teacher/preacher lol I dunno which ( he said he'll explain it to me fully later), but sha the public calls him "pastor"  which automatically means that I'm an "omo pastor". Now, it's not that I don't like that my dad is a pastor, I'm cool with it, but what I don't like is that I'm tagged "omo pastor". Why's it that the doctor's child isn't called "omo doctor" or the engineer's child "omo engineer ". I'll tell you why I don't like it. Not only for me, but for the other "omo pastors", but first, I'd like to tell you that it's the pastors God called, not the children. You must have heard people say that  pastors children are worse than other kids. I don't believe it. I'm not saying I'm a saint or anything, I'm far from that, but do you know why it would seem as though th...

Hi friends , I hope you all had a splendid week?  I had a great week as well, thank God. Yeah, so, moving on to what I'll talk about today. It's going to be quite short LOL (Yeah, I'll spare you my long talks. Just for now though), and it might be long. Who knows? I'll be talking about one amazing fruit of the spirit, and that fruit of the spirit issss *drumroll* KINDNESS!!!  Before I start though there's one song I used to sing as a kid. Lemme just write out the lyrics (it's not long) Sing a song of Joy Sing a song of happiness Do a deed of kindness today Do a deed of kindness  Do a deed of Kindness everyday THE END (not the end of this post o) Many of us know that as Christians, we should be kind and all, because it shows the Holy Spirit is in us, but how many of us are actually kind? It should be who we are. Kindness isn't until you give someone one million dollars, naira or pounds. You don't have to have a lot until you're kind.  It th...

Heyerr, hope we all had a splendid week? Yeah, so last week I didn't say expressly what I'll be talking about this week. Told y'all to guess, I wonder how many of you got it right lol. It's FashioN !!! If you love looking gorgeous, please signify oo. I like feeling like a slay queen lol, but, well there are quite a number of buts. *I'm an indoorsy person (whatever that means, try to figure it out on your own.) *Sometimes, I really am too lazy. Lol. Okay, just two buts. Lemme tell you what I like when it comes to fashion items and all. *sneakers (they are way too cute and comfy) *heels ( because I can't wear sneakers or slippers always on like every outfit, I have to go for heels too, you know, slay 'em all. TBH though, I always take a pair of slippers along. Plenty girls do, don't come and be forming  here) *Trousers/pants (whatever very easy to wear and comfy)  *Dresses (what's not to love?  From girly dresses to formal dresses) *Shirrtt...

Okay, I hope no one is pissed I went off without telling. You have a right to be though. I stopped writing for different reasons, some stronger than the others. #1 I was just not in the mood for writing anymore #2 I felt really lazzyyy #3 I kinda felt like "is this thing even helping anyone" So, when I stopped and people asked me why, I gave the first reason. I'm guessing you want to know why I picked it up again. Well, here's why. I've always wanted to help young people with the little I know. There are many young people who need someone to talk to and all, or someone that can relate with whatever it is they are dealing with. That's one of the reasons why I started the blog in the first place. I want to make a mark in people's lives and in the world. I just checked out my blog this night, and I found out that even after I stopped writing, people have been reading.  I was touched, honestly (why am I getting all emotional? lol). There's something...